The Power of Beautiful Questions

The Power of Beautiful Questions

Last year, I spent a weekend with a friend at a retreat, where we experienced the wisdom and poetry of David Whyte. One line in particular from Whyte stuck with me. If you want a beautiful life, start asking beautiful questions. My friend and I talked about what this...
The Gift of Silence

The Gift of Silence

Why are we so afraid of silence? David Whyte, in his book, Consolations, says this. Silence is frightening, an intimation of the end, the graveyard of fixed identities. Real silence puts any present understanding to shame; orphans us from certainty; leads us beyond...

On Longing

In David Whyte’s book, Consolations (paid link), he describes longing as a “seasonal emergence from within, a ripening from the core, a seed growing in our bodies.” Perhaps some of our longings are a recognition of something deep inside, a vague...

Adventures in Seeing – Disappointment

The measure of our courage is the measure of our willingness to embrace disappointment, to turn towards it rather than away, the understanding that every real conversation of life involves having our hearts broken somewhere along the way. ~ David Whyte, Consolations...

Adventures in Seeing – Destiny

In this week’s reflection on “destiny,” I gravitated towards David Whyte’s description of “the everyday conversational essence of destiny: our future influenced by the very way we hold the conversation of life itself.” Destiny is...